So Jordon and I were having this casual conversation about this summer and he said, “both of us need to start getting in better shape”. I just glared at him and was silent. I had hoped he would see the disgust and anger in my eyes and move on but he was right. Both of us need to get in better shape for some of these hikes we have planned.
I am taking the week after Easter off of work to spend some time with the kids. Part of that will be walking miles of the Meewasin trail system as I work back some cardio and get back in shape. The plan is to walk from home, down through always pleasant Caswell Hill and Riversdale and along Victoria Park until I get to the Grand Trunk Train Bridge. Then I will walk along the east side of the river through Exhibition Park, Saskatchewan Crescent, the University of Saskatchewan until I get to the CP Rail Bridge where then I will walk (crawl) up 33rd Street until I get home. I plan to do that every day and I will be cursing Jordon each and every step of it.
So today Jordon and I went out to Atmosphere and Sport Chek to see what I needed to be comfortable this summer. In the end I bought a pair of spandex tights and some shorts and I figured out what kind of shirts I need to get. While we were out, we picked Jordon up a lightweight rain jacket that is light enough to easily pack in a day pack. Once Mark decides what color he wants to get, we’ll get him one as well.
Later in the day Jordon got me some scrubs which will be fine for lounging around the fire or chilling out in the campground when it cools down at night. He also got Mark some wind pants in case the weather is bad while we are there. If you don’t like the weather in Alberta, wait five minutes and it will change. Of course that goes both ways.
We have most of what we need. Other than a Therm-a-rest for myself, we are set for all of the big items. Basically it is just the small stuff and getting into better shape is all I need to focus on.
Get organized. Not just the house (which is under control) but getting a hand of all sorts of things that go in one ear and out the other. So many times Jordon is frustrated by the fact that we talk about something, we agree on a course of action and then I go do something else. It’s not big stuff, it’s just me not focusing on what I need to be doing and I need to improve on it. It’s a lack of mental discipline that I need to work on.
Hike to Grey Owl’s Cabin (early June). This was on 2015’s list and it broke my heart that we couldn’t do it. We were all packed and ready to go but Jordon said, “My leg’s not up to it”. Jordon never backs down from a trip like this and to see him in that much pain, it was tough. He was right but it was so hard to see him make that call so we postponed it until 2016. The big difference is that we are taking Oliver this year for the hike so we will spread it out over three day instead of two. We should be able to do it in two but in case we can’t, we’ll have an extra day.
Scramble up Tunnel Mountain in Banff National Park. In the end, it isn’t a big mountain and there isn’t even a tunnel inside it but it’s my first mountain scramble and it’s going to feel like a big deal when I am up there. It’s also a big item off my Life List. It also means that I need to start working out. That doesn’t involve crunches does it? Crap, it involves crunches.
Drink tea at two alpine tea houses this summer. I know Jordon thinks this is a HORRIBLE idea but I am allowed to have horrible ideas and one of them is to hike to the Plain of Six Glaciers Tea House and the Lake Agnes Tea House. I am going to hike up there with the guys, drink my alpine tea and if they complain, I am going to whack them with my hiking pole. That may be my favorite resolution on this list. You decide if I mean drinking tea or hitting the guys with a pole.
Get more sleep. Ever since I was a kid, I loved staying up super late. I am now 46. It isn’t cool anymore but I still do it. So many times I find myself waking up in a chair late at night because instead of going to bed, I decided to stay up for some reason. Except I don’t stay up. I start to snore and then Jordon goes to bed and occasionally leaves me there. There isn’t anything wrong with being in bed by 10:00 p.m. by my age. I need to do it so I have more energy the next day.
More time with my Olympus OM-D E-M10 II camera this year. I have some great lenses, strap, and a camera. I want to spend more time mastering it. The plan is to post at least 200 photos here and at Bridge City in 2016. I’d like to post 1000 at Flickr.
I haven’t posted a lot lately but here is the latest in what is new on the home front.
Jordon’s leg keeps getting better and worse. The ulcer on the bottom of his foot is getting better. Originally he was supposed to go to the wound clinic daily several times a week but he would show up there every time with a different bandage on him as he showers at least once a day. So they started sending him home with stuff and he changes the dressing as he needs to. Anyways it is healing.
The bad part is the ankle and foot remain horribly swollen and painful. Antibiotics aren’t doing anything although now they are wondering if it is a vascular problem. So another specialist awaits.
After a whole semester of refusing to work hard, Mark has finally figured out how to work consistently hard at school and his grades are greatly improving. That has been a big deal for all of us. The one thing that he has never been taught is how to write. Jordon has taught him this year the Anne Lamottmethod of writing. A crappy first draft. Fix the first draft in your second draft. Then refine the second draft with your final draft. It has made a big difference for him.
My father has advanced cancer. Our relationship fell apart the night I told him I had been molested growing up. He went from being caring and loving to despising me that night. He has later put the blame on me for it happening. It’s a weird thing to go through. On one hand he is my father and we used to be close. On the other hand he has become a mean and abusive person to me as I have become an adult. He doesn’t know the boys and don’t know him at all. He doesn’t like Jordon and he doesn’t like me either. Yet at the same time for much of my life, he was a really good father and friend. It’s been 17 years since we have had a relationship. With the things the way they are and have been for years, I decided not to see him whatever the outcome. It’s like the good person I called ‘Dad’ 17 years ago. I wish Mark and Oliver could have gotten to know either one of my parents and extended family. I don’t think that will ever happen.
The doctor says that Jordon can carefully consider going up to Grey Owl’s Cabin in under two weeks. We are going to evaluate how he feels as we go but I hope we can. I am out buying the last of what we need (Gorilla Tape to Go, Zip Loc bags for meals and a couple of compression straps for the sleeping bags). We also decided to take Marley with us on the hike.
My garden is in. With Jordon sidelined for part of the spring, Mark and I have been doing some stuff we should have been doing for year. One of them was build a second raised flower bed. I now have two 8 foot by 4 foot gardens which is nothing compared to most of you but I am impressed that I have been able to keep up. I procrastinated this year and didn’t start tomatoes which made me sad but it’s my own fault.
One of our juniper’s died over the winter (a moment of silence please) and Mark and I had to pull it out this weekend. We pulled and pulled and cut and dug and pulled and finally we gave up. Then Jordon chided Mark for being a wimp and then Mark got it out. Let’s blame Mark for this.
I just discovered this rooftop bag by CCMwhich makes summer travelling way easier. It is $700 for a Thule box and bars while it is $80 for one of these.
In two months we will be Calgary and Banff. I can’t wait. We already have a week of camping planned for 2016. That will include an overnight hike to Glacier Lake, climbing Tunnel Mountain, hiking to the Inkpots at Johnston’s Canyon, and hiking to the Six Glacier, and Lake Agnes Tea Houses with the boys.
We have a lot of gear for our backcountry hike to Grey Owl’s Cabin but we don’t really have a lot of stuff to more traditionally camp with. Today while I was in Wal-Mart, I saw some cook sets for the family that were reasonably priced but then I realized that we have travel mugs and some stainless steel beer mugs already. So I bought a travel container and seven lightweight melamine plates for $5. I then went to Dollarama and bought four melamine bowls for $2. So rather than spending $49, I spent 7 and got exactly what I would have had to pay $50 for. I’ll call that a win.
They won’t get used this year but they will be used a lot next year. It feels good to have them checked off the to-do list.
While we were out today, we bought Jordon a pair of hiking boots. That wasn’t that hard. He just wanted 3/4 cut hikers which gave us a fair amount of options.
He will use it to shoot Mark’s football this fall with and maybe some wildlife. I hope he likes it. Of course Mark is super excited as it means that he gets Jordon’s older Sigma 70-210 lens. He sees it as a win-win.
They also ordered Jordon a 65 litre backpack for our trip to Grey Owl’s cabin. It’s big enough that we can pack Oliver in it and have room to spare.
It is Jordon’s day off today. I took it off to hang out with him. After the boys were off to school, we went for coffee at City Perk and then grabbed lunch at the Spring Roll on 33rd. This afternoon we are off for a long walk as Jordon tried out his new lens and then to Broadcast House where Jordon does his 5:15 roundtable with David Kirton and Cynthia Block.
Jordon and I both got some toques to sleep in. It will get down to 6 degrees at night so we needed some toques and glove to sleep in. Jordon has a couple pair of lightweight gloves but I still need a pair of those.
We got some travel containers for liquids. I have bio-degradable soap but I needed some bottles to carry it in. I can also pack up some bio-degradable shampoo. We all like clean hair.
Along with some containers for the liquids, Jordon picked up some pot scrubbers. I wasn’t even thinking of those but since we are cooking out of the same pots and don’t want to carry dirty ones, the couple of ounces it weighs will be worth it.
Dawgs has an outlet store in Circle Centre Mall so we picked up a pair of their men’s Spirit Shoes for Mark. Jordon and I have a pair and they will be comfortable to slip into at the end of a day of hiking. We picked up a pair for Oliver as well. At $8, the price can’t be beat.
Finally we picked up what will the start of our First Aid Kit. It has the essentials but I am going to put them in a larger hard plastic waterproof case that will hold some Extra Strength Advil and Tylenol, some moleskin and other things that will come in helpful if we need it.
The second is a summer vacation to Calgary at the end of July. Jordon was born in Edmonton but still considers Calgary his hometown despite only living there for less than a decade as a kid. I think it is a combination of childhood experiences and memories combined with his one way bromance with Calgary’s Mayor Naheed Nenshi. Oh yeah, the Rocky Mountains.
When we started to think about a trip this summer, I realized that we have a lot of AirMiles accumulated. AirMiles are the only reason why we continue to be treated poorly by the Bank of Montreal (which took a year to fix Jordon’s debit card so it would not randomly lock him out of his account). We are using the AirMiles to pay for our hotel which makes for a really cheap trip.
The plan is to take off in the early morning of a Friday and let the kids sleep in the back of the car. We will take the leisurely drive to Drumheller and take some photographs of their rather scenic downtown and give the kids some time to stretch their legs. Hopefully be in Calgary by early afternoon and book into our hotel. As soon as we get settled in, we will grab our cameras and head downtown on the LRT and explore downtown Calgary, find the Peace Bridge, check out The Bow, and wander around downtown Calgary. If I know us, we will be right back down there to do some night photography.
The next morning the plan is to get up early and take the scenic route to Banff and then head straight to Johnston’s Canyon Trail and walk the trail along the seven waterfalls. Knowing us, we will have cameras in tow and I am really looking forward to doing this again and with the boys. It’s about a two hour hike which will leave us lots of time to explore Banff later on in the day.
After the hike, the plan is to continue up the Bow Valley Parkway to the Chateau Lake Louise where we will grab lunch and head back to Banff. Hopefully we will see some wildlife along this section of the park.
On the way back to Banff, we will grab lunch at a wonderful picnic spot at the start of the Sawback Trail. It has some quiet picnic tables, a babbling brook, and amazing scenery. The first time Jordon took me there, a large herd of elk surrounded our car and licked all of the salt off it. It was covered in Elk saliva, even under the door handles. Gross. I hope that doesn’t happen again. If it does, I’ll get the boys to open my door.
The brook in Sawback and water running off the canyon walls of Johnston’s Canyon have a rich history with Jordon. He has drank both of them and gotten really sick from Giardia as a kid. Hopefully he has learned something since then but it’s Jordon so expect him to be hospitalized in Calgary.
After Johnston’s Canyon, we are off to Cave and Basin National Historical Site which in all of my trips to Banff, I have never been to. The last time we were in Banff it was being renovated and updated. It’s now open, improved, and dirt cheap to explore. Jordon loves it and can’t wait to take the boys and myself into the cave and see the glowing water. It should be amazing. Since we are there on a Saturday, we may stay late and return there for a lantern tour of the caves.
If we have time, it will be up the Banff Gondola again. I have been up a few times in winter but never in the summer. It will be a long day but there is always time for the Bow Falls in Banff. July weather will mean a little more green than in this photo Jordon took in 2010.
To end the day, Mark suggested we will head to the Upper Banff Hot Springs for a hot soak in the pool before heading back to Calgary.
After soaking in the hot tub that night, the next morning should find us at Heritage Park. I have never been but it looks amazing and a lot of fun. Jordon won’t tell me why but he says to bring some extra small change along when we go.
Finally on our last day there we will take in the Calgary Zoo. I’m not worried about Jordon in Banff, downtown Calgary, or even in Drumheller but he has this fear of birds. Calgary Zoo has a bird house. Jordon kind of freaked out the last time he was there. We’ll have our cameras out this time.
As always we will connect with some friends, family, and MEC and since it is right next door, The Camera Store.
Here is a list of things I have resolved to do better in 2015. Wish me luck.
Invest in better pens
I like to write things on paper. Paper smells good, I like the way my hand feels moving across the page, I like how my handwriting unfurls while I think. And I particularly like to write with a uni-ball® Vision Needle™ Rollerball Pen. Anyway, this is not a crazy expensive pen. Why do I own anything else? I hereby refuse to purchase any other pen. Up yours, inferior pens.
Carry less crap.
They make enormous purses now, which is convenient if you need to transport a giant canned ham or a human head. But do I need a mirrorless camera, a book, a notepad, and three kinds of lip balm to grab a cup of coffee? I need to cut back on the stuff I am carrying and stop being a pack horse for Mark and Oliver (who are old enough to carry their own crap around).
I’m writing this by candle light. You feel sexier just reading that. Candles in 2015.
Listen to More Music
I love music, but in the past I rarely made time for it. I can’t get much done if there’s music playing, because I stop what I’m doing to listen. So lately, I’ve just been listening to music and failing to get stuff done. Worth it. Here is to getting less done in 2015.
We were going to do this in 2013 but with Jordon quitting his job at The Lighthouse and trying to figure out what we wanted to do when we grew up, it got cancelled. In 2014 I wasn’t feeling that great so here we are, 2015 the year that Mark, Jordon, and I walk the back country trails to Grey Owl’s Cabin. It’s not quite the same as Wild but it will be fun.
I have some great friends that I do a horrible job of reaching out to. It’s been a long term failing of mine and it sucks but I am going to be a better friend in 2015 than I have before.
So what are you resolved to do better in 2015?
Jordon posted his resolutions here and Mark posted his over here.